#”Name is the first gift from the parents, do it with care & love.”

The name of the child is the first gift from the parent to the child & that remains till death and even after death. If the person is extraordinary then this gift becomes everlasting, unlike to other tangible gifts. Even for an average person this goes with generations. Name also influence and inspire the child.

We have to be very careful when we are naming our child; if it is not correctly done then this first gift of ours may be refused by our children. I have seen people changing their name, because it was inappropriate and sometime embarrassing.

Own name sounds musical to every individual and people are sentimental about it. That is why one should be very particular to correctly pronounce the name of the individuals. It is advisable to address by ones name and it also shows our confidence.

As per William Shakespeare, “good name, in a man or woman, is the immediate jewel of their souls.”

So, be wise to choose a good and significant name. Psychologists believe that by whatever name you call a person they respond with abilities in harmony with it. When a child is given a crude name, he responds accordingly. Therefore, a child must be so named that it may be pleasing to ears and motivate him to do noble things in life.

Avoid naming on mountains, stars, rivers etc. because as per astrology it is bad. Some names have beautiful meaning, but complicated in writing and pronunciation & that should be avoided. Name should be easy to remember, pronounce and write. All those names, which can be twisted and their meanings are odd, should be avoided. But, in olden days odd names were purposely used to increase the longevity of the child. Many names and surnames may be very funny to others due to their different meanings in their languages, but it is unavoidable.

There are people who like to have two names to their children; one pet name and other official name, but it is wrong. It is good to have only one name to the child. Different Moon signs of two names may affect the personality. One should refer child’s natal chart to know the first alphabet to name him. Further, with the help of numerology one can correct the given name of the child.

In some community, people avoid naming the child according to star and this is to hide the personality of the child. But, it is not a great idea. In contrast few like to keep the name as per the first alphabet of birth star.

#”How long one will be in wedlock.?”


Marriages are normally performed in the 7th house major or sub period and also in Jupiter and Venus major or sub period. If both partner’s chart is having strong Venus and the 7th house is good, not afflicted then such partners will have long lasting married life. If, there is weak Venus, Jupiter and the 7th house lord is placed in odd house then complications are indicated.

The Sun aspect to the 7th house or placement of Sun in the 7th house may give divorce. Divorce may be even in Jupiter major or sub period. The basic logic is after one divorce the 2nd marriage will be immediately performed.

The 4th house Saturn transit and seven & half years Saturn transit can be harmful for the marriage, if Saturn is bad and related to the 7th house.

Never predict only by one chart, check both partners natal chart. If, one has less happiness in the marriage, but other have great happiness then that marriage may last or prolong.

The divorce and separation is also depends on many other factors, so be careful when you are predicting this. An illiterate and fully dependant lady of ancient thoughts will manage her marriage even at the cost of torturing and humiliations, but a well educated and financially independent with modern outlook will not do so.

The philosophy of life and culture also affect at great level to reduce the probability of divorce even chart is not great. To support my statement I will quote the Indian society before 1947, in that time divorce was very rare, but in Europe and America divorce was common. Now with drastic changes in social pattern and lifestyle of people of both sexes, complications in married life is at rise. In India too divorce rate is increasing.

It will be interesting to note that an average American may marry more than twice sometime thrice in their life. Do you think all are having bad 7th house? No, it is not. Even the chart may be good, but the philosophy and thinking makes strong impact. Now people divorce even for a very silly reasons because for them life is too short to compromise. Whereas marriage is nothing but a compromise and everyone has to do.


#”Why all can’t be Bill Gates?”

Have us live in the childhood memory and try to remember our school & college friends; many were very capable and talented, but few are still scrambling to discover a sound program to go. Many were mediocre, but they are doing terrific and that surprises us. This is an interesting point and anyone will be curious to find the answer to this.

A pilot without political experience and interest became prime minister of India. Again in India, some chief minister’s wife was sworn in as chief minister who is not even qualified and capable to be a clerk. There are many who get the chance to act either in a movie or on stage as an actor or leader because of their family connections; such opportunity is a dream for many talented and capable persons.

Can we claim that life is beautiful for everyone? No, few are born with disabilities and bound to live a total dependant life. Tell me what’s wrong he has done in this life, so he is getting punished for it?

The many life karmas are affecting this life. There are many who continue doing all unenviable, but in that respect is no paucity of success and felicity in their lifetime. It is wholly due to good karma (Fate) of past life and with the result they are enjoying this life. Sooner the good karma of the past life will be over; bad time will start and he has to face for bad karmas.

In the Hindu religion reincarnation is very much believed, now parapsychologist also supports this. Past-life recognition in children is being studied extensively by several scientists and psychiatrists around the Earth to examine the natural selection of consciousness beyond the physical realm. This link will help to know the mystery of reincarnation:


The bestseller book of Dr. Brian Weiss – “Many Lives, Many Masters”, he has mentioned that we are bound to take rebirth and that too nearby friends and relatives to repay for good or bad karmas. We continue getting hold of birth till we don’t achieve true knowledge. That is why many have a good boss, but few are not. Few have obedient son, but other’s nature is just like a thorn in the flesh. There are people who grow without much struggle, but some are like Chris Gardner (The Pursuit of Happyness).

Many behave like Lanka king Ravana and also claim that hard work and willpower can bring all successes in the life; for them fate and luck are misleading words. Be logical and try to see our neighbors, our friends and maybe our relatives; they have all qualities to be successful, but some are utter failure in their life.

I will never say that hard work is not paying, but without good luck even our best efforts may not be rewarding. The very reason of failure is the negative of past life is greater than this life good karma and with the effect one is pulled back.

It is not a matter of debate, but research that whoever has come up in their lives, have they good planetary combinations to be successful or not? I am pretty sure that all achievers have some excellent planetary combinations; that shows past life good karma and along with this life karma he is able to make it. Ultimately, it is nothing but a story of karmas.

Without having saving how can we withdraw the money from our saving bank account, not possible? Even with nil saving, but without debt we can enjoy and be happy the moment we start saving. If, we had no bad and good karma of the past life, then we need not to repay for that and sooner we start doing good karmas, life takes shape and we flourishes; the progress will be as per the volume of our good karmas.

If someone is successful, then certainly his good karmas are playing a vital role and that is from the past and present both. The best management book, the Bhagwat Geeta also stresses upon karmas.

God too, like a bank manager of any bank, will not give money if our saving account has nil balance. May be kind manager may spare some money from his pocket as a charity, but that will be negligible. God is to manage the world; we enjoy or suffer due to our own karmas.

Now, let us analyze a few charts of famous and successful persons; they were very average or below average in the beginning of life, but they grew to the peak in their endeavor. I am sure that whoever comes up in their life from rags they must be having great yogas of success. Anyone has different thinking, then his findings will be a great help in my research work. I am quoting only a few personalities to understand the magic of karmas in the mortal life.

Bill Gates (Microsoft):

28th October 1955, 2200 Hrs. Seattle, Washington (USA)

Bill Gates began to show an interest in computer programming at age 13. Through technological innovation, keen business strategy and aggressive business tactics, he and partner Paul Allen built the world’s largest software business, Microsoft. In the process, Gates became one of the richest men in the world from an average family background.

Jim Carrey (Actor):

17th January 1962, 0230 Hrs. Newmarket, Ontario (Canada)

The lovable, amazing Jim Carry grew up dirt poor. During his childhood, the whole family lived out of VW camper parked right outside the factory where his parents worked. Before getting his big break Carry jumped around from low-paying job to low-paying job. He even struggled with homelessness for a time. He had left the factory job as a janitor; he had taken in 1978 to help support his family.

Opra Gail Winsfrey:

29January 1954, 0430 Hrs. Kosciusko, Mississippi (USA)

With a current net worth estimated to be $2.7 billion, Oprah Gail Winsfrey is in her own category of success. She grew up in poverty on a small farm in Mississippi living with her grandmother and a single mother. Oprah was also sexually assaulted by a relative when she was 9 years old. Despite the hardships of her situation she persevered and went on to become the modern day media mogul and celebrity.

Chris Gardner (Motivational speaker, Entrepreneur):

09th February 1954, 0630 Hrs. Louisiana, Wisconsin (USA)

Christopher’s childhood was marked by poverty, domestic violence, alcoholism, sexual abuse and family illiteracy. He never knew his father, and lived with his beloved mother, when not in foster homes. Christopher Gardner is indebted to Bettye Jean for his success as she provided him with strong “spiritual genetics” and taught him that in spite of where he came from, he could chart another path and attain whatever goals he set for himself.

Harry Houdini (Magician):

05th April 1874, 0400 Hrs. Budapest (Hungary)

Harry Houdini’s grand illusions and daring, spectacular escape acts made him one of the most famous magicians of all time. When he was 13, Houdini moved with his father to New York City, taking on odd jobs and living in a boarding house. It was there that he became interested in trapeze arts. Houdini’s wealth allowed him to indulge in other passions, such as aviation and film. He purchased his first plane in 1909 and became the first person to man a controlled power flight over Australia in 1910. He also launched a movie career, releasing his first film in 1901.

Lal Bahadur Sastry (Ex.P.M. of India):

09th October 1904, 1115 hrs. Varanasi (India)

Lal Bahadur lost his father when he was only one. His childhood was full of struggles. There is a very famous incident regarding Lal Bahadur Shastri’s childhood, which took place when he was six years old. One day, while returning from school, Lal Bahadur and his friends went to an orchard that was on the way to home. Lal Bahadur Shastri was standing below while his friends climbed the trees to pluck mangoes. Meanwhile, the gardener came and caught hold of Lalbahadur Shastri. He scolded Lal Bahadur Shastri and started beating him. Lal Bahadur Shastri pleaded to gardener to leave him as he was an orphan. Taking pity on Lal Bahadur, the gardener said, “Because you are an orphan, it is all the more important that you must learn better behavior.” These words left a deep imprint on Lal Bahadur Shastri and he swore to behave better in the future.

Lal Bahadur Shastri was the second Prime Minister of independent India. Though diminutive in physical stature he was a man of great courage and will. He successfully led the country during the 1965 war with Pakistan. To mobilize the support of the country during the war he coined the slogan of “Jai Jawan Jai Kisan”. Lal Bahadur Sastry also played a key role in India’s freedom struggle. He led his life with great simplicity and honesty and was a great source of inspiration for all the countrymen.

P. J. Abdul Kalam (Ex. President of India):

15th October 1931, 0115 Hrs. Rameswaram (India)

An Indian scientist and administrator, APJ Abdul Kalam served as the 11th President of India from 2002 until 2007. One amongst the most respected people of the country, Abdul Kalam has contributed immensely both as a scientist and as a president. His contribution at the Indian Space Research Organization (ISRO) has been immense. He has been popularly tagged as the “Missile Man of India”. Kalam has been honored with great laurels and awards for his work by both the Government of India and other countries. He came from a family whose financial conditions was not sound. As a means to support his family’s meager income, Kalam took up odd jobs in his childhood, but never gave up on his education.

Mary Kom (Boxer):

01st March 1983, 0611 Hrs. Kangathei, Manipur (India)

A sportswoman who has made India proud with her glorious achievements, Mary Kom is a boxer—the only Indian woman boxer, who managed to qualify for the 2012 Summer Olympics where she also won a Bronze Medal. She is five times world amateur boxing champion. Born into a poor family, she began helping her parents by working in the fields while still very young.

Narendra Modi (P.M.of India):

17th September 1950, 1100 Hrs. Mehsana, Gujarat (India)

Narendra Damodar Modi’s childhood was very average or below average. His family belonged to the marginalized sections of society and had to struggle to make a comfortable living. The entire family lived in a small house and his father managed the family by selling tea. Narendra Modi helped his father in selling tea on a platform of Vadnagar Railway station along with studies. First, he became chief minister of Gujarat state and now he is the Prime Minister of India.

Dhirubhai Ambani (Industrialist):

28th December 1932, 0637 Hrs. Veraval (Gujarat)

His father was employed as a school teacher while his mother was a homemaker. Raised in frugal living conditions, right from an early age, he was aware of the insufficiencies that the family dealt with due to the meager income of his father and large expenses. He even sold snacks on roadside to earn extra and that shows his aggressive desire to earn and grow. He was ambitious and that can be understood by his involvement in many fields like politics to service to businesses. He went to Eden to work without completing his studies. He moved back to India in 1958 and started exploring business opportunities in Bombay. He ventured in spice, yarn, then into the petroleum business etc. Reliance industries are one of the leading industries in India and it was worth of US $ 6.10 billion, at the time of his death.

Charles Spencer Chaplin (Actor):

16th April 1889, 2000 Hrs. London (England)

Charlie Chaplin was a comedic British actor who became one of the biggest stars of the 20th century’s silent-film era. Charlie was thrown on his own resources before he reached the age of ten as the early death of his father and the subsequent illness of his mother made it necessary for Charlie. Having inherited natural talents from their parents, he took to the stage as the best opportunity for a career.

Lata Mangeshkar (Singer):

28th September 1929, 2351 Hrs, Indore

In 1942, when she was just 13 years old, Lata Mangeshkar’s father died of heart disease. She was taken care of by Vinayak Damodar Karnataki (Master Vinayak), a close friend of the Mangeshkar family. To support big family, Lata Mangeshkar played cameo roles in many Hindi and Marathi films.Lata Mangeshkar is only the second Indian singer to have received the Bharat Ratna, India’s highest civilian honor. She was featured in the Guinness Book of World Records from 1974 to 1991 for “most recordings” in the world. The claim was that she has reportedly recorded not less than 25,000 solo, duet and chorus-backed songs in 20 Indian languages between 1948 to 1974 (30,000 songs between 1948 and 1987, according to the 1987 edition).

Celine Dion

30 March 1968, 1215 Hrs. Charlemagne, Quebec (Canada)

Growing up, Celine Dion had a hard life. Before she was a Grammy award winning singer, she grew up as one of 14 children in her French-Canadian Family. Her parents both struggled to provide for the family when she was young. She’s come a long way since then. Dion is now a five time Grammy winner with an estimated net worth of $400 million.

Leonardo Dicaprio

11th November 1974, 0247 Hrs. Los Angeles (USA)

When Leonardo DiCaprio moved out to Hollywood to pursue his dreams, the city did not necessarily embrace him. Before his big break, he fell into poverty with some shady characters and even criminals. It seems like it was worth it for Leo though, his net worth is estimated to be around $200 million.

Mark Wahlberg

5th June 1971, 0715 Hrs. Boston, (USA)

Mark Wahlberg grew up in tough South Boston. After he dropped out of school at age 14, teenage Mark pursued a life of petty crime and drugs. He got a big wake up call after serving time for assault, and decided to turn his life around. By all accounts he’s been pretty successful at this with an estimated net worth of $165 million.

Joanne Rowling

31st July 1965, 1200 Hrs. Yate, Gloucestershire, UK

Before getting the international bestselling writer of the Harry Potter series, JK Rowling was a struggling single mother. Life was tough for her living off of government welfare, but she held fast to it and even managed to get the time to drop a line. She’s estimated to have a net worth of $1 billion. JK Rowling is literally the definition of a rag to riches tale.

Arnold Schwarzenegger

30 July 1947, 0410 Hrs. Graz (Austria)

Before he was the Governor and an action movie superstar, Arnold Schwarzenegger was a poor immigrant from Austria. He begged and borrowed to make enough money to begin his first business Pumping Bricks, which he applied to finance his bodybuilding career.


4th December 1969, 0030 Hrs. New York (USA)

The rapper-turned-diversified-entrepreneur began life in the Marcy Housing Project in Brooklyn. As a teen, Jay-Z got involved in crime, but turned it around to become ace of the most productive, most successful celebrities in the globe.

Sean “Diddy” Combs

4th November 1200 Hrs. New York (USA)

Sean “Diddy” Combs is a true music mogul, but he didn’t start out that way. He had a tough childhood growing up in the projects in Harlem. Combs’ father was shot down in a drug related shooting. Or else of letting all that get him down, Combs persevered and today owns his own successful record label.

Halle Berry

14th August 1966, 2359 Hrs. Cleveland, Ohio (USA)

Halle Berry was raised by a single mother in Cleveland, Ohio, and like many others on this list, had a hard life. Before making her big break, she spent time in and out of homeless shelters in New York City. She delivers a different philosophy than a normal glamour lady; she dislikes surgery for age marks.

Tom Cruise

3rd July 1962, 0320 Hrs. Syracuse, New York (USA)

The “Top Gun” star didn’t have a gentle start in animation as the son of an abusive father living in upstate New York. Nowadays Tom Cruise and his movies are household names. Not just that, but he causes a net worth of approximately $270 million.

Note: In next post I will add more personalities to support my statements. Many may not be interested in astrological explanations; in this post I am ignoring , but I will explain in the next.

#”How early one may experience sensual happiness?”

Sex first starts with the mind then, to the body. That is why to attract men nature has given breast which is immediately noticed when we see some female. For attractions, there are many other factors, but the physical look is the prime.

As I hinted that mind is first device which trigger sensual urge and this is governed by Moon. Next important ingredient is courage and physical strength to have a successful physical relation. The muscles and courage is governed by Mars. Hence, the Mars placement and its strength have to consider for such activities. Along with all these, the maturity and communication skill etc. are also needed.

To be précised I should say, Jupiter causes early maturity, Mars gives courage to take risk and chance, a strong Venus induces sensual urge to experience intimacy, and the Moon to compel us to think from heart and thus we involve in early adventure with sex.

Weak Venus, malefic Moon and bad Mars in the horoscope and also having wrong placement of 7th house lord, then it is possible that the person may experience sensual happiness only when society will provide opportunity and when he will feel safe.

If, there is strong positioned Sun, good Moon and Jupiter then person will be reasonable, and he will bother for his prestige and society. Such native will avoid such activities even he may be desirous.

The Venus with the Mars or Rahu or Saturn along with weak Moon and other bad yogas in the chart make the person to follow all the methods to satisfy his mean sexual urge and sooner they get opportunity they start experiencing sensual pleasure.

The placement of Jupiter in the 7th house or 1st house gives early physical and mental maturity and such natives experience very early sex. It is also observed that they may have relation with married person.

If, in teen age there is major period of Venus or Jupiter and sub period of planets related to 7th then also sexual experiences are possible.

The worst thing can be observed in few charts:

  1. Before teens, if there is a major period of Venus or Jupiter ruling and that time there is sub-period of Venus or planets related to the 7th house.
  2. There is placement or aspect of Mars, Rahu or other evil planets on Venus along with weak Moon.

Then few children may have sexual abused. Along with previous combinations, if Rahu ruling or sub ruling comes then it can be further damaging.

Planets are important to influence human mind, but the social systems and parenting also contribute in a greater way. There are some community and country where sex is not a taboo, but for many it is just opposite and this will also modify the affect of planets.R

#”Are you having a happy marriage or a difficult marriage?”

Proverbs 27:15 English Standard Version (ESV)

A continual dripping on a rainy day
and a quarrelsome wife are alike.
Proverbs 21:9 English Standard Version (ESV) 9

It is better to live in a corner of the housetop
than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
The above quotes from the Bible indicate the pain involved in a bad marriage and nobody wants such experiences in the married life. Each of us is curious to know everything related to married life. It is said that man can fight against the whole world if he is having good support and understanding with his wife. A few can claim that he is totally satisfied in his marriage and he is not compromising.
The Saint Tukaram and philosopher Socrates married life was also not good because of their nagging wife. Wife of Tukaram, Jijai went to heaven by holding his leg and may be there also he may be having the same problem, I am just joking.
A well known anecdote about the Socrates wife is that- out of anger, once she threw a bucket of dirty water at him. The Socrates then expressed this way, “After the thunder, comes the rain.” It is his saying, “Marry or marry not, in any case, you will regret it.”
As a normal man, we too are supposed to get affected by bad married partners. If, we have a good partner then we manage our life with less complications otherwise suffering will really hamper our different areas of life, almost all.
Own siblings who grow together under own roof, have different likings and philosophy of life, even having the same guardianship and upbringings. Then how can we expect from our wife to be ditto like us who has grown up in different families and guardianship? But, love, scarify and a strong commitment to each other makes us to ignore all weaknesses, mistakes of our partners and enjoy a joyous never ending festive life.
In astrology, the 7th house, its lord and the planetary aspects to 7th house is related with married life happiness. The good planets make the marriage happy, but bad and evil positioning of planets causes complications in the married life.
The placement of Sun in 7th house and aspect has a negative effect to married life; if there is no good aspect and yoga of a happy married life then it gives divorce, separation and miseries.
If, Venus is placed in the 7th house, lord of 7th house is placed in own house or in the 7th house with no other malefic yogas of a bad marriage; then it is for sure that partner will be good, romantic and married life will be very rewarding and satisfied.
Saturn in the Libra in 7th house gives a rich partner, but some time there will be a big age difference and a partner will be less romantic, but family oriented.
Rahu in 7th house may not give a sober and aristocratic partner. On the contrary, they may be less romantic, but demanding.
Mercury in the 7th house in own Rashi with a strong Venus; give early or very early marriage. The partner will be wise, knowledgeable and skilled in the work.
Mars may give delayed marriage, but partner will be healthy and both will be happy. But, the 7th lord should be placed in good houses and there should not be aspect and placement of the Sun in the 7th house.
Exalted Sun in the 7th house gives marriage to a person who is having a good name in the society or a famous person or belongs to a reputed family. Many times such native after marriage gains a respectable position and reputation, but other planets should be well placed.
Moon in the 7th may give an old looking or older partner. In this case, there could be a liberal relation between them and one of the partners may be talkative.
Venus with Rahu or Saturn or Mars or their aspect gives strong libido. Don’t neglect his physical demands, if you don’t want him to flirt and involve with other women. Similarly, men have to keep fit to full fill his wife physical needs to avoid the problem in relation, if the above said planetary combinations are present in her chart.
Exalted or strong Venus, Mars and Moon in one house and aspect of Rahu or bad planets on Venus may tend to explore different ways to satisfy unusual sexual urge and such person may go for unnatural sex. If, Jupiter, Saturn or Mars is not strong and well placed then such desires can make them unsocial elements.
The Rahu and Saturn in the 12th house, Moon and Mars in the ascendant and strong Venus in the 6th house is also a very unusual combinations and such native have a very-very strong sex drive and that will last late in the life. For him, lady means only sex and they may be even incest. If, Jupiter is strong with other good yogas then may have a desire but he will control.
How is your partner going to be?
The nature of planets related to 7th house, or planets placed in the 7th house or aspect of planets to the 7th house along with other yogas, decide the nature of partners.
If, Jupiter is lord of 7th house and also having an aspect to it, then it is for sure that the partner will be knowledgeable or learned and mature to manage the life in a beautiful way. If, he has secret relation, that will not surface due to his managing skill.
The Venus is a romantic planet; gives a romantic and good looking partner, if it is exalted or in own Rashi in the 7th house or in an auspicious house. One may also have a good looking partner, if the 7th house lord belongs to an even number and there is no bad aspect to 7th house.
Mars in the 7th house will give a strong personality of the partner. May be some time they will be aggressive.
Mercury gives a nature to compromise due to maturity; weak Mercury and bad Mars may give compromising in nature due to lack of confidence.
Saturn in the 7th house gives a partner who can sacrifice his profession for the happiness of the family. He may not be very romantic, but he will always do his best for the family.
Rahu will be like his nature and somewhere it will give the personality of a partner like him.
Uranus aspect or placement in the 7th house gives a moody partner. They may have strong bonding, but there will be frequent fights. Such native should avoid any type of discussion when they are in bed. Otherwise, the night will spoil due to fight.
If, you, want a romantic and sensual partner, then check the Venus positioning in the chart. Venus should be strong and this should be placed in the 7th house and ascendant should be strong along with good Moon. On the contrary, the Saturn and Mercury in the 7th house give a partner lacking in sex drive.
Are you marrying a rich person?
The exalted Saturn placed in the 7th house is a very strong indication of a rich partner. If, the individual is having raj yoga and the 2nd, 4th, 7th and 10th house is having a good aspect or auspicious planet’s placement, then the partner will be a lucky and rich.
Why marriages are delayed?
Mostly marriage is delayed due to planetary combinations in the horoscope, but there could be many other factors which we normally ignore. In my knowledge given points are responsible for delayed marriage:
1. Kaalsarpa or placement of Rahu in 4th house.
2. There is Vivah-pratibandhak yogas.
3. The 7th house lord is placed in 6th, 8th, 12th or 3rd house & Venus and Mercury are weak.
4. The Sun is in own Rashi or exalted sign and weak Moon in the chart.
5. 6th house has an evil aspect or evil placement of planets.
Then such native may have delayed marriage or he may not get married.
1 to 3 points are due to bad yogas.
Points 4 and 5: The strong Sun gives ego, weak Moon lack of confidence, confusion and such natives are unable to take a proper decision; find faults in every proposal or give different excuses to delay the marriage. They lose favorable time of marriage and thus marriage is delayed or sometime never takes place.
It is a general assumption that, if one is destined to marry, then marriage will bound to happen, but it is not very true. Marriage means getting a partner to share emotional, physical and other feelings of life. In olden days, it was just not possible to be intimate with anyone without marriage, but in modern society, it is not the same. So, a favorable marriage time may also give a strong relation, in place of a social marriage. One has to be logical and go deeper to understand the all aspects of a native’s life to guide them correctly.
Remedies & advice:
Unlike to western astrology we have remedies for a bad marriage and avoiding divorce; we can follow these advices:
1. There are many contradictions about kaalsarpa yoga; many don’t believe this malefic yoga. It is my sincere advice to do at least once, if one has partial and thrice in case of complete Kaalsarpa yoga. But, do it as per our Vedic Shashtra by a learned Brahmin.
2. If, there is a yoga of divorce or more than one marriage, then do Vishnu/Kumbhak/Ghatak five and it should be done before puberty for a better result. For male one should perform Ark Vivah.
3. Along with the remedies, acceptance of fact may prove better. Try to compromise more to avoid complications otherwise, the only number of marriage may increase not the happiness.
4. Many don’t believe in matching horoscope for marriage compatibility. It is better to match both charts for marriage compatibility because it helps in reducing complications. A Good Brahmin always goes deep in the charts to analyze different aspects of partner’s life, not only the score. The even higher score may not save the marriage, if there are bad yogas in the individual chart.
Conclusion: This write up is just a tip of iceberg to avoid complications and have a happy married life. We have to keep trying our best to manage our married life because divorce is affecting not only the pairs, but family, relatives, society and the nation at large.
Divorced person’s birth details:
Female: 17/12/1984, 0940 Hrs, Chandigarh (UT).
Female: 27/09/1982, 0545 Hrs, Lucknow (UP).
Male: 05/07/1963, 2345 Hrs, Bhopal (MP). -Widower
Male: 14/12/1973, 0700 Hrs, Baramati (Mah.).
Male: 11/09/1968, 0815 Hrs, Delhi. (2Divorce).
Male: 19/11/1994, 0800 Hrs, Mudhol (AP).
Female: 05/12/1968, 2315 Hrs, Mumbai (Mah.).
Female: 03/06/1973, 1320 Hrs, Pune (Mah.)
Male: 28/08/1967, 2240 Hrs, Barsi (Mah.).
Female: 04/04/1977, 1800 Hrs, Calcutta (W.B.).
Female: 03/06/1980, 0232Hrs, Patna (Bihar)
Male: 30/09/1982, 0320 Hrs, Raipur (M.P.).
Female: 07/10/1988, 0515 Hrs, Bilaspur (Chattisgarh).
Female: 07/01/1984, 1222 Hrs, Hubli (Karnataka).
Male: 03/02/1976, 2020 Hrs, Bhopal (M.P.).
Female: 28/08/1979, 1922 Hrs, Gangtok (Sikkim).
Male: 01/05/1978, 2227 Hrs, Tuticorin (Kerala).
Male: 09/05/1961, 2230 Hrs, Pune (Mah.).
Male: 07/05/1968, 2235 Hrs, Pune (Mah.).
Female: 26/06/1974, 2013 Hrs, Mumbai (Mah.).
Female: 14/02/1980, 1425 Hrs, Bareilly (U.P.).
Male: 15/02/1977, 0600 Hrs, Gondia (M.P.).
Female: 22/05/1976, 1145 Hrs, Dadar (Mah.).
Male: 13/06/1977, 1030 Hrs, Pandarkawada (Mah.).

#”Vedic mantras: Mantras for a big boost in the profession.”

The two syllables of the word Mantra mean, “man” (mind) and “Tara” (liberation). Mantrais a sound that can liberate the mind from fear, dependency and sorrow. Psychologically, once the mind is freed, other problems are automatically resolved because the greatest problem is the mind itself.

The word Mantra in Sanskrit is derived from “Mananaat Traayate” meaning “Just by chanting (mananaat) we can protect ourselves (traayate)”.

A “Mantra” is a sacred utterance, a mystical sound, a syllable, word or phonemes, or set of words in Sanskrit have psychological and spiritual powers. A mantra may or may not have syntactic arrangement or literal meaning. Mantras are tonic for the soul.

The Synthesis of Mantra:

Mantras are arranged in different compositions like Suktas, Vidyas, Prayogas, Digbandhanas, Parayana kramas and so on.


It is the basic building block of mantra. Beeja is a sound-seed that represents energy. Each God-form is identified with a particular energy form, represented by a beejaMantra is a composition of beejas.Beeja mantras are one-syllables, typically ending in anusvara (a simple nasal sound). These are derived from the name of a deity; for example, Durga yields dum and Ganesha yields gam.

Mantra: Mantra is a divine word, a sequence of beejas. Its meaning is of two kinds, etymological and resonant/inspirational. Each mantra has a Rishi, Chandas and Devata. Rishi is the seer that revealed the mantra. Chandas is the meter of the mantra. Devata is the presiding deity of the mantra, or deity being prayed to in the mantra.

Samputikarana: A samputikarana is a sequence of mantras used for specific purposes combined with specific procedures.

Sukta: Sukta ( hymn) is a collection of mantras on a specific deity.

Five beeja (seed) mantras are:

OM: “Om” is the most eminent and universal of the Beeja mantras it is the origin of sound. It gathers energy and also pour upward and outward.

KRIM (“kreem”): Chanting this mantra kindles our lower chakras to purifying our body.

SHRIM (“shreem”): Its associations lie with the head and third eye. It promotes physical and spiritual health.

HRIM (“hreem”): This has the power of healing and creativity. Chanting of this mantra awakens compassion and purifies the heart.

HUM (“hoom”): This mantra helps in neutralising negative feelings; spreads positivity and vitality through the body.

Sounds of the chakras:

1. Root chakra: LAM

2. Sacral/Navel Chakra: VAM

3. Solar Plexus: RAM

4. Heart Chakra: YAM

5. Throat Chakra: HAM

6. Third Eye Chakra /Brow Chakra: OM

7. Crown Chakra: OM

Vedas are full of mantras. Vedic mantras are important in the Hindu rituals and it is a way of life for many. In the Vedas, power of mantra and their effect is explained. There are mantras for every reason; right from birth to death. In fact, all rituals related to life have mantras.

The spiritual effect of the sound waves is not heard by the ears but, felt by the heart. This spiritual effect of echoing within each of trillions internal cells to stimulate the hormonal glands and spiraling chakras. The mantra produces a sound wave which has the power to cure disease and bring peace. Mantras also affect the environment, creatures and plants too. In Ayurveda, one is asked to chant mantras in a prescribed way to pluck the leaf, herbs or fruits from the plant. It is warned that if, you don’t follow the right procedure, then medicine made from plants & herbs will not be cent percent effective.

The sound produced by conch can even kill the germs of cholera and many other diseases. It also immediately neutralizes the negativity in the environment. Renowned Scientist J.C. Bose has proved that the harmful invisible virus/insects disappears by the sound produced by Conch Shell.

The bell in the temple and church produce a special frequency and it has a fabulous effect on us. In the Buddhist monastery mantras and sound producing instruments are liberally practiced and that is again linked with the power of sound.

The symbol of the Swastika has one lakh Bovine, which is just a sketch, then think about the effect of sound in the form of different mantras!

In the verbal communication the words play a great role. The sweet tongued persons are appreciated and liked by most of the people. On the contrary, a person with bitter tongue & harsh toned are not welcomed. This is also nothing but, mantra because it has sound.

Rhythmic sound with different wavelength is very powerful and it may damage even big structures like bridges etc. That is why when a troop crosses a bridge, then, they are asked to march not in steps. Mantras produces powerful energy in the form of sound frequencies. Anything exceeding the speed of sound creates a “sonic boom”. An airplane, a bullet, or the tip of a bullwhip can create this effect; they all produce a crack. In the case of airplanes, shock waves have been known to break windows in buildings.

Mantras affect our lives in many ways. Mindfully chanted mantras give the effect of meditation. The chanting of mantras, effect more to the crown chakra and the navel chakra besideother chakras. It has the power of faith healing. During the chanting of mantra we surrender to particular God and that helps us to tame our ego. It also makes us pious and shapes our personality. Psychologically, we are boosted to face extreme crises of life and we get the courage to take extra steps without giving up.

Gurumantras are given to us by our guru after analysing our spiritual needs and physical strength. The name given by parent is to identify ourselves in the world and mantra given by the guru is to link with the God to attain Moksha. For Moksha we have to achieve that state of mind where we only remember the guru mantra, not even our name.

The “Durga saptsati” has powerful mantras and it is supposed to be chanted correctly to get proper result and avoid bad effect.

Many of us may not pronounce the mantras in a correct way and that may harm us. For this reason when we start and finish the chanting of mantras then, we should pray to the God to forgive for mistakes.

It is advisable for all Vedic shanti pooja to take the help of Vedapathi Brahmin, who has a proper education in the Vedic school for many years, than a priest of a temple. Two different types of Brahmins can be compared like a qualified doctor and a quake.

Most of the mantras have a strict method to chant, but, in case of manshik (silently in mind) japa there is no such restrictions. Gayatri mantras should always be chanted with a procedure and by sitting on an asana.

Mahalakshmi Moola Mantra for abundance and fast growth:

“Om Sreem Hreem Sreem Kamale Kamalalaye Prasida Prasida

Sakala Sowbhagyam Dehi Dehi,

Om Sreem Hreem Sreem Om Maha Lakshmiyai Namah:”

(Recite 1008 times for 21 days.)

#”Vastu shastra: an ancient science of India.”

It will not be surprising if, we will no longer have the need to use mobile for communication after a few years, maybe a small implanted chip in our brain will enable us to communicate with anyone. In the ancient time; even today there are yogis who rely on telepathy.

There were many great inventions done in the past and we have evidence of it now. Our Rishis (scientist) wrote books on Vaimaniki and with the help of those design successful models of airplanes are made.

The importance of many things get ignored by the time, but that still remains and keep affecting our lives. By not following olden teachings we have spoiled our ecology; now we are very close to devastation.

It is the same case with Vastu Shastra. In olden days Vastu Shastra was integral part of life. People were not aware of the subject as “Vastu Shastra” but they followed it religiously. Those folks were simple, deep in their thinking and also nature loving. The technological advancement has brought a magical change in the human life, but also spoiled our belief system. Now, the human race is confused and living with countless doubts. We have ignored many early teachings without properly understanding it. Ancient Vastu is based on science and it helps us to enjoy the human life with the rhythm of nature. It is sad to note that when we can’t understand the intricacy of the subject, then we name it unscientific. It is easy to understand science because it has logic, but mystic sciences need knowledge of science along with deeper and broader insight. But, how long we will hide our ignorance by branding these facts “unscientific” which are science beyond science? Many mysteries are yet to be solved. Many facts still need to be understood. The universe is not easily fathomable and that gives us a message to be curious but not arrogant.

With the developments, space and comforts have become a major factor for all types of dwellings. When constructions are done for business, then the profit margin becomes vital and that leads to many compromises in Vastu Shastra norms. This is quoted to make it clear to those who have plenty questions and confusion related to Vastu Shastra. May be 50 years back life was not as competitive as today. Needs were limited and one was happy with small achievements. There were joint families and different types of sharing among the members to compensate for many shortfalls. Now, the nucleus family has different challenges to face on a day to day basis and is not so simple to manage. Without a good dwelling and balanced state of mind, life can turn to be burdened. The apartment system has brought great comforts and luxury to us. But, inbuilt toilets and many other Vastu norms which are commercially non-viable have also added much negativity in our life.

There were hardly any olden house in which toilets were built up inside; it was always in one corner of the house but away from the main dwelling area. Buildings were constructed square or rectangular, rarely had missing corners and odd shapes. It was always taken care of Sunlight and ventilation.

I will like to give you some example to convince about the effects of Vastu. Take the case of India, as per Vastu norms the north direction should be low and the south should be higher and heavier. We have the Himalaya in the north and the Indian Ocean in the south and that is just opposite of Vastu Shastra. Time and again this has affected our country and still going on. Till there is no major geographical changes in the Indian Territory, complications will continue.

Ancient Vastu Shastra is helpful not only in selecting a good residential place, but commercial ones too. It can be applied in all types of structures like religious and other public places. Let us be analytical and try to compare the houses and buildings around us and find the effectiveness of Vastu Shastra rules. In my long practice of mystic sciences I found only a few buildings constructed following Vastu norms but people are prosperous and joyous. It is observed that during good ruling of planets in the horoscope, even bad Vastu can be managed.

#”Can we avoid divorce and have a happy married life?”

“If you get a good wife, you’ll become happy; if you get a bad one, you will become a philosopher”, this was the Socrates statement. It conveys that in the Socrates era divorce was not prevalent and man had to suffer till to become a philosopher. It was really very sad, I can feel the sufferings and the pain of the people. Thanks to the changes in the social laws happened over a period of time. The law of divorce saved many to change from a normal human being to a philosopher.
#The divorce laws brought great relief in many lives who had great torturing from their spouse. But, now in India too it is spreading like an epidemic and we all have to really be concerned with this problem.
Can we avoid divorce to save many families ending up in great miseries?
It will be a great relief to many, if the answer is yes. I feel sorry for all couples & their dear one who are those facing this fateful situation and experiencing the trauma. Due to this the children of single parents have psychological impact and their personality is not well groomed. Life at the present time is very uncertain and stress level is also increasing with the everyday progress. There should be no dearth of love to ignore the small things in day to day life of everyone, but it is lacking. The modern day philosophy is a big hurdle in maintaining a cordial relation in personal life and it is contrary to: “A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”
A good husband makes a good wife. This sentence someway make the man more responsible to have a happy married life. I can’t dare to offend the women folk stating that they are weak at any front, but no one can deny that mostly very emotional. Women represent love, kindness and beauty. A normal man gets fascinated with their esoteric beauty, tenderness and unfathomable love. I don’t want to stress upon their emotional aspect of personality, but worried about the impact of drastic changes of social values of their life. Divorce is one of the effect of changes in the social values; more than a man a female has to suffer after the divorce. I wish and pray that relation between wife and husband should be such that let each lady say: “Blessed by the God and spoiled by my husband.”
After reading the above few paragraphs one may question that “was the marriages in the past decades or even before were sweet like honey” and my answer will be “no”? But, before industrialization and modernization life was much simpler and good, mainly the relation of human beings.
Whether it is an arranged or love marriage in both cases, we take full precautions to know the compatibility between both the partners as per our knowledge and capabilities still things go wrong. The most loving connection beside blood relation is the relation of a man and woman as a wife and husband. In some cases this relation is incomparable and surpasses all the relations because in no relation except a relation of wife and husband, it is possible to get all the happiness from the partner.
As per Acharya Chanakya,: “A good wife is one serves her husband in the morning like a mother does, loves him in the day like a sister does and pleases him like a prostitute in the night.”
Many have the luck to experience most joyous and meaningful life, but few are unlucky due to spoiled relation between the two. Their every day is not full of heavenly pleasure, but a real torture. Sometimes, even separation and divorce is not possible and that make the situation very grave. Our all creativity is killed, joy vanishes and sufferings are limitless.
“The burning question is whether divorce can be avoided”?
If I have to reply then I will say no, it is not possible. It is very difficult to totally stop the divorces due to social advancement and many different complexities. In each and every case it is not possible, but many divorces can be avoided; we can continue to live together like an average wife and husband. In such relations every day may not be festive, but it will not be filthy, barbaric and blood sucking.
We keep observing that there are plenty jokes on some community and then about the wife and husband. I always get confused to read the jokes and it also pinches me. It is all due to unromantic relation, monotonous lifestyle and lack of respect for each other. Both the partners have to give their best to maintain the romantic relation till we live. Let every day be a honeymoon. Such imagination may be impractical, but it is still helpful and we must try. Let us compromise, understand and scarify to make the marriage a success & beautiful.
Being an astrologer and psychologist, I will stress upon malefic planetary combinations in our chart and their bad effects spoiling our married life along with our behaviour. In the ancient era also, the matching of horoscope of both the partners was vital before accepting the marriage proposals. But, it is useless if it is only for knowing the guna( compatibility) scores. Horoscope should be thoroughly analysed for various planetary combinations along with the different yogas like divorce, separation and unhappiness in the married life. The matching of horoscope gives full insight which is not possible to know by just physically observing the partner, investigating about them and knowing about their present achievement & status. Astrological analysis allows us to know the sexual, emotional and other compatibilities between the both. We take very lightly on matching the chart and not able to use this tool for the most important guidance. Self-analysing the horoscope with theoretical knowledge and matching the horoscope by using software can be hazardous. It is wise to know us all about the life, happiness and compatibility through the horoscope, but from a competent astrologer.
The given hints are guidelines & one can take the help of it:
1. If the 7th house lord is placed in the bad houses, then, don’t expect very happy married life. In this case one has to compromise before and after marriage. Otherwise, it may lead to great unhappiness or even separation etc.
2.  The placement or aspect of the Sun in the 7th house may cause separation or divorce. The 7th lord with the Sun or the 7th lord has the Sun’s aspect will give the same result. It is important to take all the remedies to avoid divorce and separation in such planetary combinations.
3. If the Venus is weak, then chances to have less bed comforts and delayed marriage. In this case one should be mentally prepared to accept the truth and also perform the suggested remedies.
4. Sex addict or oversexed may have this:
a.  If the Moon is weak and the Venus is with malefic planets or having malefic aspect.
b.  The Venus in the 6th house in the own sign and the Moon and Mars together may make the person sex addict.
5.  One can see the presence of the broken Venus of girdle, displaced and over developed Moon, weak thumb, flabby palm and many horizontal lines on an over developed mount of the Venus. This also indicates some abnormality in the sexual aspect of the life.
6.  If there are many broken lines on the forehead, then go deeper to understand his character because such individual may have many relationship.
One must also know the childhood history and the family story to have better insight on the person’s personality.
I will not go deep in the Astrology because it may not interest to all. Few points purposely quoted so one will be aware of the evil planetary combinations which can cause horrible partner and wretched married life. 
I suggest my marriageable readers to understand that before marriage, we have all the freedom to accept or reject the proposal. But, after marriage, it is not at all easy. So, it is wise to choose the partner with balance state of mind with a logical approach. Even one can go against the parents and relatives & refuse the proposal, which is not liked from the heart. Never marry just to prove your virility in the eyes of society if you lack the libido or you are sexually incapable of making your partner happy.
There are maximum possibilities to have error in those decisions based on emotions. We usually see that decision taken at the teen age is mostly based on infatuations and that leads to complications. I am not a hypocrite and mostly blunt. There is sufficient reason to say that the marriage is mainly for sex and the physical aspects plays the prime role. But, if it is only for sensual pleasure, then long lasting marriages are doubtful. Whoever has such thinking they are tempted to change the partner and may lead them to go for a divorce.
Once my client, a German Osho Sanyasi, questioned me that how a man or woman can live a full life with the same person? It is a normal philosophy of an Indian is that the married partner is for the life and maybe for the next seven lives. The western philosophy is quite different. Her logic was quite convincing; as a human being we keep trying to discover different ways and methods to get more happiness. Otherwise, why Rishi Vatsyayana has to explore 64 positions to enjoy sexual pleasure? Being with one person for full life is really boring. But, there are some ingredients beside the thrill of experiencing new partners and that act like the salt & spices in the food. The most important factor which holds us in the marriage is: “love for each other” because physical love alone is not sufficient. When we live for each other then, the relation changes from merely physical to spiritual. In such relation our sexual act is not monotonous because we enjoy the spiritual sex. When “two bodies, but one soul” philosophy is practiced then the miracle happens. With the passing of time, such relation gets deep to deeper. This happens as we scarify for each other and start living for the happiness of the partner. “The more we give, the more we get” saying have a powerful impact in shaping the relation. Till we don’t surrender to each other, we can have only superficial happiness and prone to have all the complications of life including separation and divorce. In some cases, if partner is not fully involved in each other then also that can lead to many other complications. Even sexual addictions can further enhance if one’s emotional aspects are not properly addressed.
I know that many may have very different reactions on my statement. But, their deep understanding and analysis will help them to understand & accept my theory. Recently, it has been in the air that #unconsented sex with wife is also a rape. But, what is the solution if a married man is badly needed sex? If the partner is having an excessive sex desire, then better know the reason and seek psychological advice. The anatomy of a lady sexual organ is such that even a lady is not aroused can give gratification of sex to her partner, but not a man & this is the answer to our unconsented sex with the wife. The interference of social organisations and government in the personal life of the married couple is going to create a big problem and less happiness. It will be misused like IPC 498A and IPC 376. This was realized by the authorities and now lots of relaxation is given. The law should certainly intervene if it is badly affecting the quality of the women’s life. Such impractical laws will further spoil the relationship of a married couple and also lead to many other social crimes. If a woman is not available for the need of a husband then how come a strong bonding will develop? But, it goes without saying that husband should be also loving, scarifying and sincere to her.
Due to our materialistic approach now we are uncertain even of our life partner and as a financial security, we try to have individual saving and a separate bank account. This may label us a modern and shows the equality of status, but it will never give the feeling of belongingness. The relation of wife and husband should be like water and milk, after mixing them, water is no more a water and it loses its identity.
In the past, the ornaments were gifted to the ladies and that was named as “Stridhan”. It was like a financial security for the women. Out of love, on different occasions, men use to gift ornaments etc. and that was added in that. Due to olden day’s non-materialistic approach in, such relation money was not creating any drift between them. Now, it is the time to understand that the strong bonding can’t be developed with a very practical and materialistic approach, it needs love, trust and devotion.
#Some prominent reasons of broken or bad marriage are:
1.                   Disloyalty.
2.                 Disobedience.
3.                 Selfishness, Cruelty & lack of devotion.
4.                Interference of relatives.
5.                 Non acceptance of family responsibilities.
6.                 Dissatisfaction in the sexual life.
There could be many other reasons which are responsible for the failure of a marriage, but above reasons are mostly noticed.
Let us dig out a few points which can be very handy in saving the marriages in present era:
A.                 Cautions before marriage:
It is very essential to know the person fully before we marry. Marriage is considered to be a lifetime deal and also considered as a second birth. So, one must study all aspects of life before finalising the marriage. Similar likings, status and background are helpful to sustain the marriage, but it is not only the key point. It is always good to share our all personal information which may affect the relation in the future. Mostly we all have something in the past and the secret to share. So, one can be bold to reveal it for a peaceful and lasting relationship. Because many may not like to know the past of their spouse through others. So, better talk all and let the other person accept and be comfortable with us. No relation can be lasting and happy which was started with lies and deceptions. Otherwise also we will never be comfortable and peaceful till the death if lied or hidden the important information from the spouse.
B.                 Cautions after the marriage:
There are limited points to be considered before finalising the marriage as mentioned earlier. On the contrary there are several things have to be taken in to account and followed after the marriage. Just think about our own siblings, we have differences with them even though we grow together and under one roof. Then, how come the partner will not have different thinking and opinions towards life? Both are from different families and their ethics and teachings are also bound to differ. Every individual is a creation of the God, but none of us are ditto of another. Misunderstandings and the small difference of opinions are expected, but that has to be in limit and should not last for long. As a good human being we normally ignore and forgive the mistakes of the partner to have peaceful relationship. But, mistakes like extramarital relations and cruelty is difficult to digest & that creates severe complications in the married life. No couple wants that partner is dishonest and disloyal. Then comes the financial aspect and behaviour of the partner.
In the present scenario the parents of spouses are also a major cause of conflict. Olden days there was joint family and old parents had no much problem as they were taken care by the family members. Now, in the nucleus family it is not the same and in many cases it is a serious issue to deal with.
The relation of mother-in-law and daughter-in- law is a big issue in the married life and in many cases it leads to separation and divorce.
Strenuous work culture and competitive lifestyle are bound to spoil mental stability and causing psychological problems like depression and much more. People around us also are very much responsible in spoiling our happy married life. Many are very casual to comment and advice even on a serious problem like a personal relation. Constant brainwashing has a strong impact and some way that provoke us to take a wrong step.
In India too, in the last three decades there is a fantastic improvement in our lifestyle as women are equally joining the mainstream and becoming financially independent. Many changes in the laws have empowered the women to get a better status in the society.
Living in relationship and other liberal laws are really bringing good changes in our life, but many of us are not able to use this in a decent way. No one can be blamed for it, it is a transition period. It takes time to get used to new things, but till that time we have to suffer.

Are you in the correct profession?

It is said that every individual is born with some talent and that can make us famous like any other celebrity provided we make use of it. But, hardly people know their talent and thus few get the status of a celebrity.

There are many other factors required to make us better in our endeavour; luck and karma are prominent among all. Further, our progress, achievements and satisfaction are optimised when we choose a correct profession for which we are destined.

The earth is Karm Bhumi (place of work) and every human being is born to perform particular task assigned by our destiny. This life destined karma is inspired by the karma of the past life. This may not be accepted by many people who have not given time to understand the mysticism of life. I request them to read about parapsychology and different mystic sciences.

“Anything done from the core of our heart, give us satisfaction and even though it is tough, we are neither fed up nor bored. When our work becomes a hobby, then we achieve the best of our potentiality.”

There are people who learn a serious profession like medicine, engineering etcetera, but after a few years they give up and start something different. Why they do so? Reason is very simple. When we don’t enjoy the work that affects our performance and leads to failure.

Few of us change our profession because we have to survive, but that is only for a time. Any trouble in the life is not forever. A successful person, compromise and do all possible things to survive, but sooner get the opportunity they jump back to originality.

There are people going to the North Pole, South Pole, Antarctica, Mount Everest for adventure which are not only very tough, but life threatening. Why they do so because they like adventure? The thrill and love of such experiences they do all daredevils tasks; even at the cost of their life.

If, we have the same urge and passion for our profession, then even the life risk and pain is accepted without grudge. With that craving no one can stop us to achieve the best from the life. The forced profession always demotivate us; time and again we like to find problem with that. Even with a little problem and dissatisfaction we are out of gear and we give up. We change the profession and go for a new.

After 5 or 10 years being in one profession if, we are changing and starting a new one, then in that case the 10 years of experience may not be utilised in the new profession. We have to start as a fresher. If, it is repeated even twice or thrice in our lifetime, then, may be at the age of 45 or 50 we will be taking up a profession as a beginner whereas that was the age to be a master.

In the beginning, we are fresh and nothing is known about the undertaken profession, but every day we put efforts to learn and after many mistakes and financial losses we get the perfection. But, change of profession means a waste of our previous efforts, hard work, investment, good will and a good span of precious time.

Our parents are responsible for our success in the life. Proper guidance and their efforts make us a shining star. But, can we doubt the sincerity and efforts of those parents whose child is a failure in the life? May be few are negligent, but not all. As a parent if, we are logical then many of the complications can be avoided. In a case of special children if, he is admitted in a normal school, then may not progress to his fullest capacity. Understanding the child capabilities and their liking is vital. For that beside psychological tests, even the natal chart of the person can play a significant role.

The destined profession, burning desire and capabilities of the individual can be easily identified by the individual horoscope. The atma karka, Vargottama planet, 7th and 10th house lord and their placement, powerful planets in the chart, placement of the Sun and its strength, the Moon conditions and many other planetary combinations can indicate the suitable profession which may be difficult to find even by psychological tools and testing.